Monday, March 29, 2010

life away from home.

hi friends!
so im back with something new from the back of my head.
everyone in their lifetime have to stay away from home for sometime, there may be exceptional cases but may be they r lucky or may be not( i dint hav this opinion until now) coz they do miss something important in their life, the fact that they can make a livelihood all by themselves, which i have realised now.
It's really difficult for someone like me who was always surrounded by parents n bro n sis who were always there to correct you and help you make the right choices in life which would later turn out to be important.It took a hell lot of time for me to get adjusted to the lonely life,that i was leading for somedays, though now i dont feel so lonely.
When u stay away from home, you have the entire responsibility of yourself on ur shoulder and believe me guys it isn't so easy as you people think, though most of them get adjusted to it with time.
I open my eyes in the morning at 6:45am(of course the alarm helps here), and the first thought that comes to my mind, ok, let's see the time, do i have some more time to sleep or should i get up and start cooking.even if i sleep somemore time , it wont matter much, coz my office timings isn't really very strict and you can always make up for it during the week.
When i freshen up and reach the kitchen, check out for the ingredients that i have available to make breakfast and lunch,though always something or the other is missing , i try to manage with the substitues. Finish the coking ad get ready for office.
When im about to leave the office, i have to think the things i would need to buy.
I reach tee store, look at the prices, i wonder how did the prices soar so high since i left my hometown. I had never bought a bunch of palak for Rs.7 until i was here, back in bangalore i used to get 4 for Rs.10 and the quality was better there.May be inflation has changed things, but it still would not be Rs.7 over there still.
I never knew its so difficult to decide the dishes that we cook, coz we have to manage things in such a way that the vegetables dont spoil.Sometimes i have to cook something which i really wouldn't if i had a choice.
I wonder how they manage it back at my home. Cook n sleep. that's how boring life becomes sometimes.
When friday comes, i off the alarm, and sleep till im tired of sleeping.
You are at ease on a lazy saturday morning, and then think what you like to do. First things first. Washing clothes(OMG, that's the last thing i would like to do), cleaning the house(this is another thing i hate).
You see the time and realise that the time for breakfast has already passed, and the clock is galloping towards the time for lunch.
You eat something which is easy like cornflakes, i dont like it much, but that's the easiest one.
Washing all the clothes(im happy that i've not been playing with dirt like i used to do during my childhood, it does make things easier).
Take bath n cook lunch, it's already 3.U have lunch and think, ok lets have a nap.Cleaning the house can be done on a sunday.
U wake and find, u need to get a lot of grocery, get that and its time to cook dinner. :(
Sunday u wake up late,cornflakes again ?? cleaning the house , take bath and then cook lunch n sleep. U can go around a bit somewhere or for a movie and that's how the week ends.
No time for the person called YOU.. life keeps running at a fast pace.
Life @ home
Get up, take bath, mom/bhabhi gets breakast, even if its 6am(i definitely would not b able to do it if im away from home).
Take the packed lunch and leave.
Come back home and everything is ready for you.Talk to everyone at home(now i have a niece and nephew too, wish i could spend a lot of time with them). Eat dinner, call few friends, play games and sleep.
During weekends, get up, eat and call some friends and roam around the city.
There's a lot of difference between both.
The way u think change drastically in both the places ,life @ home is the best..
but life away from home makes you a master of life, by which u learn how to hold the responsibilty of the family alone..

Thursday, November 26, 2009

journey of life since 2008 to nov 09

Though i created my blog during Jan of 08, i remained inactive since life was so full of happiness fun that i had no time to write any more posts on my blog.
Since Jan 08 i graduated, and since then life has been unsettling and making the kid in me grow up and look forward to the world where unexpected things happen to every1.
there were months of waiting to do some work and a lot of never ending tries to make it to any software/hardware company.
then finally a day came when i got a job, in a well known company. well the job profile wasn't what was when other of your close friends are working in famous and well known companies having a decent job profile and drawing salaries much more than you can think of( of course sometimes things are exaggerated ), i was happy for getting that job in times of peak recession.
i got along well with people , made some very good friends.
just when i was comfortable , i got my joining for my company.
i was happy about it but then sad since i had to leave every1 in bangalore and go to hyderabad.
the day came when i said good bye to Bangalore and left for Hyderabad

Life @ Hyderabad wasn't very pleasant in the beginning though.
I lost my favorite phone N73 for which i am depressed till now, it would have been a wonderful companion.
initial days at the new company was tough with lots of studies and tests and uncertainity in life as to what had to be faced in the coming days.
finally training period was over.
then there was a long waiting period to get some decent work that could have been given to me and my batch mates.we enjoyed those days with lots of movies and time pass, taking life easily.

then finally the day came when i left for chennai.
during those days @ hyderabad some people helped me a lot, gave me the feel of family away from home.though i kept running back to my home at Bangalore for weekends just like kids run back to their mom during their initial school days.

Life @ chennai again wasnt very pleasant in the beginning.
Again i found friends as a support to me during my initial days at chennai.

i got some work and have lot of learning to do now. im a novice here who has to learn a lot just like a caterpillar has to evolve into a butterfly.

Finally all that i can say is since jan 08 to dec 09 , a person who i was during jan 08 has been transformed into another person who has become more matured , seen life changes drastically over the months that passed by over 2 years.
as a person i gained lot of personal experiences and understood the fact that friends and family are an very important part of life, though friends may not keep moving on with u n keep in touch constantly without your endless efforts(well there are exceptions always) , a family is an integral part of one's life where they constantly push u up further to achieve greater heights understanding the fact that situations you are into may not be pleasing you.
They may not be with you all the time, they they surely will always be helping you to make you grow emotionally and psychologically to make you stronger day by day so that in any part of your life, you can face things with utmost confidence.

Sunday, January 27, 2008


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